Saturday, January 16, 2010



Its the Year of the OTK Spanking for ME ;-)

I will be making a BIG effort to meet new people who love spankings. I will be doing spanking videos. I hope to arrange a few spanking parties. I will be offering professional sessions for spankings and roleplay. I am looking for spanking stories.

I got to thinking the other day that I have not been concentrating enough on the things I like to do the most. My journey into the world of BDSM and Fetishes all started with my exclusive interest in spanking,roleplay and wearing sexy sensuous lingerie. One thing led to the other and I got involved in helping men crossdress. Then it led to bondage and on and on. Somehow the spanking got left behind except on a few occasions. I became more involved in what others liked and wanted from me than what I liked.
Don't get me wrong,I have enjoyed exploring the many aspects of BDSM over the many years I have been involved in it.
The things I have come to enjoy besides otk spanking are,facesitting on men, sensual bondage, cbt, sissys, nurse/enema/medical play. The things I do not enjoy so much anymore is golden showers and adult babies. I will never try scat or needle play as this is of no interest to me. I want to enjoy erotic sensuous things.

This is my thoughts for today.

Warmest thoughts from Lady Anika Stern

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

New teasing play station




Hi Everyone
I want to let you know about my new play station. My slave has built a "glory hole" for me ;-). I love it.

Wednesday, March 26, 2008

SEXY PHONE TALK WITH ME














I would love to hear from some of you.

Please phone me on Niteflirt and we can talk about our fantasies.
I love kinky erotic talk. I am sitting here all alone and thinking about how I can use you for my pleasure and how you can pleasure me.
Some suggestions: How about pampering me and giving me a nice bubble bath. Helping me dry off and putting on my black lacy panties and black sheer stockings. It makes me hot to see you get excited and hard and even hotter thinking about giving you a sensuous spanking on your bottom. I would love to spank it until its warm and glowing under my hands.
Then I would like to tie you to the bed and tease you slowly. I would apply massage oil to you and then rub in all over you with my breasts and hands. If I discover that you are still getting excited and your mind is still on naughty thoughts then I will have to sit on your face and make you smell and lick me. Your body face, tongue and private parts will be used for my amusement and pleasure. Please call me and let me know what you think would make us hot together.
Hugs from Anika


Monday, March 10, 2008

My thoughts on spanking


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I am often asked what turns me on the most. I often hesitate to answer when the person asking it is turned on by bondage, golden showers or foot worship etc. I am very open minded and enjoy a lot of things as long as the person I am playing with is responsive and enjoys what I am doing to him or her. I have to be honest though, nothing turns me on more than setting a sexy scene, taking control and turning you over my knee and giving you the spanking you deserve and crave. I love spanking men and women. I have to admit that a sensuous spanking is a real turn on for me. You know what I mean, not to hard, just slowly warming the bottom up and getting all those nerve endings tingling, teasing and massaging the whole area. Then working it up to a bit more to a stinging hot and glowing warmth. I don't believe that this type of spanking should be rough or mean. I like to play the nurturing Aunt, Stepmother, Governess or Employer giving you what you need for your own good. I realize that lots of you like it hard and hurting, I can dish that up too but in the end its not meant to be sadistic. Sensuous Spanking is my thing, role-play makes it more fun.
For those of you who are more difficult to control the English Arts may be necessary. I am extremely experienced with a cane and will take the position of authority that you require.
I know you want to ask, have I ever been spanked?? Do I like being spanked? The answer to both is yes, that is how I became interested. When I was 10 years old I remember sitting in the closet with my dolls and having them spank each other. I didn't understand why I was getting all tingly between my legs but I know that I must have thought it was naughty because I played with them in the dark closet. When I got older I fantasized about my uncle or teacher or some man in authority who was kind but strict telling me that I had to go and spend time in the closet (not the corner) and think about what I had done wrong. Quite often I had worn a short skirt and had exposed too much therefore causing a sexual reaction that my authority figure didn't feel comfortable with. He then would come into the closet (a walk in closet in my fantasy) and turn me over his knee and slowly spank me. The rest of the fantasy is usually a bit sexual if you know what I mean. Now what happened is that I never met anyone that spanked me the way I liked or fulfilled the fantasy the way I wanted it. I am not a submissive and I don't like the spanking to hurt to much so I took control and ended up doing the spanking. I have met so many people who like being spanked but need to be understood and have had bad experiences. Most of this is mental and when the build up is there then the nerve endings receive the smart of the hand or paddle willingly.
I hope to hear from you spanking fetishists out there and invite you to share your stories and interests here.